Katey Sagal opens up about having a baby at 52: âI have 5 minutes left to have kidsâ
Katey Sagal opens up about having a baby at 52: âI have 5 minutes left to have kidsâ

Wesley StenzelThu, August 6, 2026 at 3:15 AM UTC
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Katey Sagal attends Netflixâs âOne Pieceâ fan event Feb. 26 in Los AngelesCredit: Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagicKey points -
Katey Sagal said that when she began her relationship with Kurt Sutter, he said, âI donât wanna have any kids.â
The actress warned Sutter, âI have about five minutes left if you wanna have kidsâ since she is six years older than him.
Sagal and Sutter eventually welcomed a daughter, Esmé, via surrogate.
Katey Sagal is reflecting on becoming a mother again in her fifties.
The MarriedâŠWith Children actress, 72, shared her experience welcoming her third child, EsmĂ©, via a surrogate.
âMy husband is six years younger than I am,â she said of her spouse Kurt Sutter during a conversation with Ted Danson on his podcast Where Everybody Knows Your Name. âAnd when we met, he was like, âI donât wanna have any kids.â And I was like, âOkay, âcause I have about five minutes left if you wanna have kids.ââ
Sagal said that Sutter changed his mind several years into their relationship.
âAbout five years in, we started really talking about it, and so we did the whole surrogate process,â she said. âThis is EsmĂ©, my sweet EsmĂ©, whoâs 19. Sheâs my favorite right now. Kids, I love you all.â

Esmé Louise Sutter and Katey SagalCredit: Kurt Sutter/Instagram
The actress also shares two children with her late ex-husband Jack Cameron White: Sarah Grace White, 31, and Jackson White, 30. Sarah works as a musician, while Jackson is an actor in projects like Huluâs Tell Me Lies.
âMy oldest daughter has made the most beautiful record that she wrote and produced,â Sagal shared on the podcast. âSheâs amazing. And just to see the process of how you have to be able to market yourself nowâŠlabels used toâŠgive you money so you could just be an artist and they do all the selling. And now itâs just a very different world for young artists. Itâs hard.â
Sagal said that she has learned to bite her tongue when she wants to offer feedback on her childrenâs artistic endeavors.
âWhat Iâve really learned lately is to say things like, âI have some thoughts about that. Would you like to hear it?ââ she said. âAnd then if they say, âNo, Mom, I donât want to hear it,â then I have to follow suit.â
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That was particularly challenging when Sarah shared rough cuts of her album with the Sons of Anarchy star, who began her career as a musician and released three solo albums after finding success as an actress.
âWhen my daughter was making her record, she would send me mixes, rough mixes. I had a bunch of notes,â she said. âAnd I would really have to pick and choose what [to say], because I just felt like I know that world.â
Sagal said that her kids wonder why she continues pursuing so many acting jobs at this stage of her career.
âTheir only thing to me is, âMom, youâve been working for so many years, why donât you just chill for a while?ââ she shared. âIâm like, âYou guys, I like to work. That is chill for me. I donât like all the down time. And I donât really know what else I would do.ââ
She also noted that her kids are heavily invested in her career.
âTheyâre really proud,â she said. âTheyâre the first ones I call when I get a good job.â
See Sagalâs full conversation with Danson in the video above.
on Entertainment Weekly
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